When Is the Right Time to Get Married? A Journey of Love, Timing, and Trust

Welcome to the Signed by Phill blog! Whether you’re dreaming of a grand wedding, a cozy elopement, or just want to make it official with a simple legal ceremony, I’m here to help make it happen—beautifully and stress-free. But before we dive into tips, planning advice, and all things weddings, I wanted to start by sharing a little bit about my own journey and why officiating has become so important to me.

Our Journey: The Right Time Was Our Time

Like so many couples, my partner and I knew we wanted to get married. We knew our love was strong. But that didn’t mean we had everything figured out. There were still family dynamics to navigate, conversations to have, and expectations to manage. And instead of getting lost in the stress of trying to make everyone happy, we decided to focus on what mattered most—each other.

We started with a domestic partnership, a step that gave us the legal protection we needed while giving us time to grow together. Later, when it truly felt like the right time, we eloped. But what I didn’t expect was just how expensive, complicated, and stressful the process could be.

Between finding the right officiant, making sure everything was legally sound, and trying to craft a ceremony that felt true to us, I realized just how difficult it could be to find someone who understood the unique journey of LGBTQ+ couples—someone who could honor the beauty of love without the pressure of outdated traditions or expectations.

Why I Became a Wedding Officiant

Going through this myself, I knew I could help others have a smoother, more meaningful experience. My background in event planning, entertainment, and large-scale coordination gave me the skills to create unforgettable, intentional moments. And more importantly, as a queer officiant, I wanted to be someone couples could trust—to guide them through this moment without judgment, pressure, or unnecessary stress.

I now officiate weddings, elopements, and legal partnerships because I believe every couple deserves a ceremony that feels like theirs—whether that means a grand celebration or a quiet, intimate moment shared between two souls.

What You’ll Find Here

This blog is here to help couples navigate everything about getting married—from legal logistics and vow writing to creative ceremony ideas and real wedding stories. If you’re wondering:

💍 Should we elope or have a big wedding?

📜 What do we need to make it legal?

💡 How can we make our ceremony feel more personal?

You’re in the right place.

I’d love to be a part of your journey. If you’re ready to start planning your perfect moment, let’s chat.

📩 Contact me here to schedule a consultation.

And stay tuned—next time, I’ll be sharing 5 Unique Ways to Make Your Ceremony More Personal!